Lost Inner Child

Hi lost inner child, here are a few reminders to help you through the rough night....

(1) There's no shame in running the rat race, but too much of anything is bad. It is ok to focus on sustaining yourself

(2) There are going to be nights where you would feel hopeless. Try to survive through the night and one day you'll learn how to live and not merely survive.

(3) Whatever your dream might be, they'll always laugh at it first. You don't have to worry about being the slowest, worry about not being on the right path. After all it was the turtle who won the race

(4) Oftentimes your mind will drive you mad and you'll end up making mistakes. Embrace those mistakes and learn from them, taking accountability is the first step towards growth

(5) There's no harm in switching, whether it's your career or your partner, as long as you don't lose yourself to fit them in your life

(6) They will keep showing you their power by throwing rules at you

The more you know yourself... The more they feel helpless

(7) You might feel stuck about things you thought will stick with you throughout, remember in those days that it's never too late to leave.

Friendships that you never thought would end

Lovers you thought were different

The career that you thought would make you happy

(8) Not everyone that has hurt you cares

Taylor Swift once said "You don't have to forgive or forget. You just become indifferent and then you move on"

(9) We all have all sorts of unrequited love, let it go. Just like the rest of us, you too can take it

(10) Remember people lie, some for good and some for their own benefit. Never let their lying burn the candle of trust in you

(11) Believe in the good but most importantly always believe in the bad. Don't expect to pet a python because it can't harm you as an infant, it'll swallow you alive once it's capable and your love will not be enough to change its true nature

(12) You'll not be able to fathom your life all the time, not everything needs to be understood.

(13) As a kid you might have liked pink and as you grow old you realize you are a fan of lavender now. Let yourself flow, don't hold on to your old self only because it's familiar.

(14) Certain things will even hurt till you're old but don't let them control you

(15) Leave the house once in a while, you'll have to be there all day once you're too old to move

(16) Let yourself evolve, as you may never know the depth of your character unless you challenge it

(17) There's no such thing as eternal happiness. "Nothing lasts forever" is the best and the worst fact of life

(18) Be open to perspectives because oftentimes you will be wrong

(19) It's not until we are lost that we find ourselves. We might not be the same as we were before we got lose but we are going to be wiser

(20) If you ever want to change the bad in the world then remember you are the beginning and you are the end